Tuesday, August 11, 2009

The 23 phrases make the life happier

What to do when you confronted some quarrelling with your love one? Will you compromised with a good ending or just remained the same and everythings ended badly?

Here is some useful phrases that can help to turn down the heat of anger (I found it somewhere in the web).

The useful 23
  1. Please try to understand my point of view.
  2. Wait, can I take that back?
  3. You don’t have to solve this—it helps me just to talk to you.
  4. This is important to me. Please listen.
  5. I overreacted.
  6. I see you’re in a tough position.
  7. I can see my part in this.
  8. I hadn’t thought of it that way before.
  9. I could be wrong.
  10. Let’s agree to disagree on that.
  11. This isn’t just your problem; it’s our problem.
  12. I’m feeling unappreciated. [Always, my craving for gold stars!]
  13. We’re getting off the subject.
  14. You’ve convinced me.
  15. Let’s take a break for a few minutes. [If you can remember to do this, it’s extremely effective—especially if you’re having a big fight. After a break, it’s almost impossible to go back to yelling.]
  16. Please keep talking to me.
  17. I realize it's not your fault.
  18. That came out all wrong.
  19. I see how I contributed to the problem.
  20. What are we really fighting about?
  21. How can I make things better?
  22. I’m sorry.
  23. I love you.

Great articles, I will try out the effectiveness someday! hehe

What other strategies or phrases have helped you fight right? Mind to shared?

3 comments: