In memories of beloved ah ma.She's been leaving us for a month.
Guess she is dating with grandpa now that's she always so missed when she was with us.
She married at age 17 with 11 children. We used to be so lively when that's 'big festival' and every weekends. All the sons, sons-in-law, daughter, daughter-in-law, grandchild all gather together in a big bungalow.
But when she was getting older, Alzheimer's came silently without knowing. She was repeating and repeating have you eaten? The children never get her any treatments.
They felt annoying and started to abandoned her to nursing home. I felt heartache and useless because nothing can done for her.
No children were ever visit her during her nursing home stayed. We were so closed with her since she grew me up. Only the grandchildren were giving those tender, love and care to her.
She's getting depressed day by day. At last she's giving up herself, not taking any foods. She were only have sips or spoon when we was there.
What an old people needed is love. But sadly not in her.
Alzheimer + depressed ended with giving up.
She was my beloved Ah Ma.
She was leaving us peacefully on 28th of Jun, 2011 in a medical centre due to septicemia from the sacral sore.
She is now with her beloved husband happily.
You will always be missed. My dearest Ah Ma.
I miss you
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